If your friend or family member has confided in you to help them you have a very important role. The most important thing you can do is to listen.
Please know that anyone can come to Birthright to talk about a loved one experiencing an unplanned pregnancy. Below is a list of suggestions to help someone through an unplanned pregnancy.
- Listen, Listen, Listen.
- Call Birthright.
- Help her identify her core values before a crisis occurs.
- Help her stay true to her values once confronted with a crisis.
- Know who she is as a person and what she values so that you can advocate for her when she feels like she does not know herself.
- Ask her what she will think of this decision in a month. A year? Five years? Ten years?
- Help her problem solve. If she is worried about how her future will be affected by a decision, imagine the possible scenarios with her.
- Remind her that this crisis is temporary.
- Express your concern about her situation and that you want what will be best for her now and in the future.
- Ask how you can help instead of telling her what to do.
- Listen to her thoughts and concerns and let her know that you are always there to talk.
- Encourage her to reach out for help – to speak to a professional or someone trustworthy who has her best interests at heart.
- Help her slow down and not make a hasty decision. Encourage her to take her time.
Birthright is a non-profit agency supported by tax deductible donations, dedicated volunteers and professionals.
A donation of $100.00 or more may qualify for the Missouri Pregnancy Resource Center Tax Credit which provides a tax credit equal to 50% of your donation.